I hear it over and over–“It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me… why? What happened–we were having such a great time together. I’m tired of this happening–I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?”
Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells me this, I discover he’s making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to skyrocket his success with sexy women. Here are the most common ones:
Dating tip #1: Don’t date. Yes, that’s right–don’t date. Think about a traditional “date”–it’s full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a “traditional date?” Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn’t return your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to “make your move,” and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee–it’s fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she’s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or “lay a rap” on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she’ll begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her. She’ll want to discover more… now you’re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE dating tip.
Dating tip #3 Be a “naughty little boy.” Another big dating tip. Remember the “class clown” in elementary school–the guy who was “cool and funny” all at the same time? When you’re talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them thinking, “I can’t believe he just said that… but I like it.” This shows sexy women you’re NOT impressed by their looks, that you need to see more. This is so different from what they’re used to they can’t help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines, “laying a rap,” or any type of “acting.” Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout one, you’re instantly a JAG (just another guy). And JAG’s don’t get sexy women–remember this dating tip!
Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their world–to get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys who’ve already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to be different to sexy women).
Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women (indeed, all women) will test you to see if you’ll stand up to them. If you can’t stand up to her, …